xyan11 发表于 2025-3-4 17:39
我在组里经历了从免费的answer进阶到“Jupyter Notebook浏览器不自动弹出怎么办”，以及“打印机死机了怎么 ...
as carlos already pointed out, that simply doing (more-or-less) random things and then coming back to the list and asking us to fix your input is not going to work. nobody here has the desire to do *your* thinking and *your* project for you and since you have failed to show any interest in actually *learning* anything for yourself, you are not likely to get any help at this point. people here can be very helpful, but they expect people that receive the help to pay respect their effort by demonstrating that their help motivates people to make an effort to become more knowledgeable and understanding what they are doing. as soon as they sense they are being exploited, like your case is showing in the most extreme fashion that i can recall since subscribing to the list a very long time ago, they will ignore you or worse.
PLwang 发表于 2025-3-4 17:48
我觉得这里说的实在是太对了，我很赞同
simply doing (more-or-less) random things and then coming back to the list and asking us to fix your input is not going to work
My experiences with the [novices] have helped me to see that kindness can take many forms. And, sometimes, being too kind can actually keep a friend from doing what they need to do. Pushing them away may seem cruel, but it's sometimes the kindest thing you can do.
可以友好，别太友善。Serious 发表于 2025-3-5 10:51
如果是新人朋友，我拒绝线上，都是在健身房现场聊聊，利用组间间隙和别人讨论。。 可以友好，别太 ...
student0618 发表于 2025-3-5 22:21
真的，线上线下也不能太友善。线上还可block他，线下会过来找你的。
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